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And there are plenty of reasons why men – especially straight ones, but also anyone who has a straight woman of reproductive age in his life – should be deeply offended at the Right’s sudden attempt to stigmatize contraception with this relentless and deeply offensive slut-shaming we’ve seen of late. Here are five reasons why.

“The men in our lives, including members of the General Assembly, generously devote time to fundamental female reproductive issues—the least we can do is return the favor,” Senator Turner said. “It is crucial that we take the appropriate steps to shelter vulnerable men from the potential side effects of these drugs.”

The legislation follows the FDA’s recommendation that the evaluation of erectile dysfunction should include a determination of potential underlying causes and the identification of appropriate treatment following a complete medical assessment. Similar bills to more closely regulate reproductive health issues have been introduced in the state legislatures of Virginia, Oklahoma, Idaho, and most recently Pennsylvania.

“When a man makes a crucial decision about his health and his body, he should be fully aware of the alternative options and the lifetime repercussions of that decision,” Senator Turner said today. Men will be more easily guided through the process of obtaining treatment for impotence so they can better understand and more effectively address their condition.

PDE-5 inhibitors can carry serious side effects such as priapism, hearing loss, and vision loss, and can be detrimental to men with heart problems, including heart pain, abnormal heart rhythms, high or low blood pressure, or a history of stroke.

“By implementing more intensive screenings before prescribing the medication and requiring outpatient educational services, we can do more to prevent the potential side effects linked to PDE-5 inhibitors,” Senator Turner explained. “We must advocate for the traditional family, protect the sanctity of procreation, and ensure that all men using PDE-5 inhibitors are healthy, stable, and educated about their options—including celibacy as a viable life choice. This legislation will do just that.”

inothernews:

So there are segments of the population that don’t want contraceptives covered under certain health plans but don’t worry, we’ll make sure a battery-powered dick vacuum is covered by BOTH private insurance AND taxpayer-funded Medicare. A fucking DICK. VACUUM.

inothernews:

So there are segments of the population that don’t want contraceptives covered under certain health plans but don’t worry, we’ll make sure a battery-powered dick vacuum is covered by BOTH private insurance AND taxpayer-funded Medicare. A fucking DICK. VACUUM.

October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month.  Domestic Violence is all about power and control.  Not about something wrong with you or something you did wrong.
You may be in an emotionally abusive relationship if your partner:
 Calls you names, insults you or continually criticizes you.
Does not trust you and acts jealous or possessive.
 Tries to isolate you from family or friends.
 Monitors where you go, who you call and who you spend time with.
 Does not want you to work.
 Controls finances or refuses to share money.
 Punishes you by withholding affection.
 Expects you to ask permission.
 Threatens to hurt you, the children, your family or your pets.
 Humiliates you in any way.
You may be in a physically abusive relationship if your partner has ever:
Damaged property when angry (thrown objects, punched walls, kicked doors, etc.).
 Pushed, slapped, bitten, kicked or choked you.
 Abandoned you in a dangerous or unfamiliar place.
 Scared you by driving recklessly.
 Used a weapon to threaten or hurt you.
 Forced you to leave your home.
 Trapped you in your home or kept you from leaving.
 Prevented you from calling police or seeking medical attention.
 Hurt your children.
 Used physical force in sexual situations.
You may be in a sexually abusive relationship if your partner:
 Views women as objects and believes in rigid gender roles.
 Accuses you of cheating or is often jealous of your outside relationships.
 Wants you to dress in a sexual way.
 Insults you in sexual ways or calls you sexual names.
 Has ever forced or manipulated you into to having sex or performing sexual acts.
 Held you down during sex.
 Demanded sex when you were sick, tired or after beating you.
 Hurt you with weapons or objects during sex.
 Involved other people in sexual activities with you.
 Ignored your feelings regarding sex.
Women don’t have to live in fear:
In the U.S., call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 (SAFE). 
UK: call Women’s Aid at 0808 2000 247.
Canada: National Domestic                         Violence Hotline at 1-800-363-9010.
Australia: National                         Domestic Violence Hotline 1800  200 526.
Or visit International Directory of Domestic Violence Agencies for a worldwide list of  helplines, shelters, and crisis centers.
Male  victims of abuse can call:
In the US, The Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men & Womenspecializes  in supporting male victims                       of abuse and offers a 24-hour helpline: 1-888-7HELPLINE (1-888-743-5754).
UK: ManKind Initiative offers a national helpline at  01823 334244.
Australia: One in Three Campaign offers help and resources for  male victims.
Domestic Violence; It’s EVERYBODY’S Business.Call your local shelter and ask how you can support their efforts this month.

October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month.  Domestic Violence is all about power and control.  Not about something wrong with you or something you did wrong.

You may be in an emotionally abusive relationship if your partner:

  • Calls you names, insults you or continually criticizes you.
  • Does not trust you and acts jealous or possessive.
  • Tries to isolate you from family or friends.
  • Monitors where you go, who you call and who you spend time with.
  • Does not want you to work.
  • Controls finances or refuses to share money.
  • Punishes you by withholding affection.
  • Expects you to ask permission.
  • Threatens to hurt you, the children, your family or your pets.
  • Humiliates you in any way.

You may be in a physically abusive relationship if your partner has ever:

  • Damaged property when angry (thrown objects, punched walls, kicked doors, etc.).
  • Pushed, slapped, bitten, kicked or choked you.
  • Abandoned you in a dangerous or unfamiliar place.
  • Scared you by driving recklessly.
  • Used a weapon to threaten or hurt you.
  • Forced you to leave your home.
  • Trapped you in your home or kept you from leaving.
  • Prevented you from calling police or seeking medical attention.
  • Hurt your children.
  • Used physical force in sexual situations.

You may be in a sexually abusive relationship if your partner:

  • Views women as objects and believes in rigid gender roles.
  • Accuses you of cheating or is often jealous of your outside relationships.
  • Wants you to dress in a sexual way.
  • Insults you in sexual ways or calls you sexual names.
  • Has ever forced or manipulated you into to having sex or performing sexual acts.
  • Held you down during sex.
  • Demanded sex when you were sick, tired or after beating you.
  • Hurt you with weapons or objects during sex.
  • Involved other people in sexual activities with you.
  • Ignored your feelings regarding sex.

Women don’t have to live in fear:

Male victims of abuse can call:

Domestic Violence; It’s EVERYBODY’S Business.
Call your local shelter and ask how you can support their efforts this month.

The following day, I attended a workshop about preventing gender violence, facilitated by Katz. There, he posed a question to all of the men in the room: “Men, what things do you do to protect yourself from being raped or sexually assaulted?”

Not one man, including myself, could quickly answer the question. Finally, one man raised his hand and said, “Nothing.” Then Katz asked the women, “What things do you do to protect yourself from being raped or sexually assaulted?” Nearly all of the women in the room raised their hand. One by one, each woman testified:

“I don’t make eye contact with men when I walk down the street,” said one.
“I don’t put my drink down at parties,” said another.
“I use the buddy system when I go to parties.”
“I cross the street when I see a group of guys walking in my direction.”
“I use my keys as a potential weapon.”
“I carry mace or pepper spray.”
“I watch what I wear.”

[…]

Not only does feminism give woman a voice, but it also clears the way for men to free themselves from the stranglehold of traditional masculinity. When we hurt the women in our lives, we hurt ourselves, and we hurt our community, too.